topic6: HOA'S LIFESTYLE AND MINE

Hoa and I have been close friend for 5 years. We have opposite character, thinking, opinion, so we often argue or quarrel. However, similarities in lifestyle made my peace with her. We’re always by each other side and help each other overcome all problem as well as challenge, share and sympathy happiness as well as sadness, bring to each other the real value of the life. Thus, similarities and differences in lifestyle help us maintain our long lasting friendship.


First, both of us pose our purposes clearly and try to do our duty. She always make plan clearly for her future. And for me, living without purpose likes going on a ship without direction. She and I agree with each other we can do anything without aim, and we also never make great work if our aim is bad and selfish. So Hoa and I set up short plan and long plan each other. We try best ourselves to make them come true. Similarly, Hoa’s lifestyle is: “never worry and lose heart whenever we face to failure”. I believe in the motto: failure is a mother of success. We never give up our belief and hopeness. Each failure is a valuable lesson and experiment.


Despite our similarities, in term of emotion, love, and the ways to behave, we have differences. Hoa is more practical, and mature. She want to buy a convenient house in district one, and get married with a kind man who loves her, and has stable job. Conversely, I’m a daydreamer. I want to have a romantic love with full of nuance affection, want to live in a house with full of roses. I believe in miracle, and luck. On the other hand, I behave like a child. It means I often talk without thinking carefully even without thinking because I’m talkative. I make adult annoy because of my childish stupid behavior. On the contrary, Hoa is a person of very few words. But her words is valuable, and it makes listener must think so much.

Similarities in some ways, and different in term of emotion bring us the miracle of friendship. Similarities help us more believe and differences help us more understand each other. I learn strongpoint of Hoa’s lifestyle to complete myself, and to make good my shortcomings.